Dear S.,
You reached out to me about a job opening on Aug. 2, 2010.
I was over the moon and fully intent on hiring you on the spot. No contest. None whatsoever.
Thank you for coming back into my life when you did …
Although who could resist this kind of job post, really? I knew we were going to be FAST friends right then.
I know it ended in disaster for both of us. But it brought you to me and to all our friends who love and miss you very much.
Hugs,
Goddess
Dear S.,
I never hated “If I Die Young” so much until today. My mom was playing the song. For you, of course for you.
I wouldn’t say I’m any more coherent today. But I did reach out to some people about you. Everyone is hurting right now. I think they figured I’m pretty inconsolable.
Some others worry that their grief is miniscule in comparison to what mine must be, so they were keeping it to themselves.
A couple of your old colleagues reached out to me to see if I’d be up for a drink and some reminiscing. I don’t even know one of these people, but if I get a funny Sia story, I’m sold. Bloody Marys by the beach are on tap very soon. Wish so very much that I were meeting you there instead.
I got to talking with one of our girls. I didn’t say it to her but I remembered my life plan to retire from the biz at 46. I came up with that with you. When we talked about it, I was going to give it five more years and go park my pudgy pork roast ass in Paris. For a season if not for good.
Our friend says I still have time. I say I need to keep playing the lottery. (And I do …)
I think what makes you such a loss, other than your all-around amazingness, is that you did everything you set out to do. Moved to a foreign country. Put yourself through school. Got your dream job and quit after it was a nightmare. Came to Florida because I asked you to. Worked your tail off and made everyone fall in love with you. And finally, finally, got back to the country you love so much.
Really, if there’s any comfort to be found here, it’s that you ROCKED THIS LIFE you had. And you left the world a better place.
And the loss here is that you had SO MUCH MORE GOOD to share with this world.
Mom calls it the “season of Sweet Sia.” It’s all we had you for. It wasn’t enough — it’s never enough — but it was vibrant and bright and colorful and warm and absolutely wonderful while it lasted.
Missing you more each moment you’re gone,
Goddess