All the space
I told K I watched my mom lick so much dick in her life, i do the opposite.
She said no you don’t. You either tolerate abuse into perpetuity, or else you have a zero-bullshit tolerance.
She clarified, and you pick wrong every time.
This is why we are friends.
I’m not going to pontificate on the perpetual abuse topic. She has no love lost for the source of it.
But I don’t know that the other is zero tolerance. It’s more like … I wrote off the first few instances as a new situation, then maybe that was my fault, and then I’m like come the fuck on already bye.
No reason I’m posting. Or maybe there is and I’m trying to process.
Really, just reviewing all the times over 2026 when I was sending hugs and WTFs to my friends from some new situation to me.
And wondering whether I lose out or save myself more annoyance down the road, when I do need space.
All the space.